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MisInformation: The Female-Perpetuated Myths about Men Volume 2 (Paperback)
One of the most tiresome questions underqualified women ask is "Why should I settle?" Here is why. You haven't shown us anything more than decent looks, an extensive wardrobe, and sexual expertise. Show us a little more than that, then we can accurately determine why, when, or if you have "settled." As basic as your resume is, the men you date may actually be settling for you! The reality is, too many women earn $1 more per hour than the average salary and believe their net worth has gone up and these weak men need to take note. Wrong! But, congratulations, now you have implants, decent looks, and now, a better-than-average job. That still doesn't justify you climbing up on your pedestal and thumbing your nose at men, claiming, "This city is full of broke-ass, go-nowhere men," when you only make a dollar more an hour, if that. You could make $44k per year, and now, no man earning $39k is on your level? Please! I know men who earn six figures, and their wives barely a quarter of that, but she has expensive tastes that she will need the bulk of his income to entertain. "We' re rich." No, he's rich, you just wake up next to him! Who settled for whom? Everyone reading this, male or female, can name several men married to women who bring little or no income at all. Doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, celebrities. He's college educated, in great shape, supports the entire family on his income alone, and . . . and has taken on children from her past failed relationships, and you don't think he's settling? That he doesn't deserve a woman equal to him? But, because society sides with these women, it is misogynistic to say these women are beneath the men, or that the men settled. I've met so many men whose wives can't even dress, cook, earn, or string a decent sentence together, but look good. She doesn't know the first thing about what he does that ultimately allowed her to become the stuck-up, narrow-minded, unemployed, self-proclaimed diva that she is. These men didn't settle? The wife lacks etiquette and class and has no career to recall or, worse, fall back on should he leave her high and dry with babies. But, to women, these men are not settling, just providing a lifestyle for deserving women. Get real. Ladies, you should settle, because what you consider a positive trait enabling you to discredit men is actually an indication of how basic and run-of-the-mill you actually are. So, what if you pay your own bills! Who cares that you work every day? Congratulations if you keep your hair and nails done or are blessed with a killer body. That doesn't make you special, because there is a woman sitting right next to you in the same salon getting the same things done to artificially boost her self-esteem as well. You aren't the only woman in a pair of jeans a size too small! Get fully dressed, and see how many men you attract then! Let's break this down for the nonbelievers. Now, let's say you own your home, have no kids, have a decent career, speak and dress well. Are the women settling for you, or are you settling for them? Let's break it down further. That way, I can conclude this little rant on my feet, running and ducking for cover. He has a gym membership, you don't. He settled! He works everyday, you don' t. He settled! He's articulate and educated, and you aren't. He settled! He reads, and you watch soap operas. He settled! He has no kids, you had two when you met him. By different men? Definitely, he settled! He has good credit, you need a cosigner for everything. He settled! When you married, you moved from your apartment into his house. He settled! He invests, saves and has become money-wise, you don't, and have not. He settled! He was already a millionaire when you met him. He settled! You're divorced, he's never been married. He settled! He drives the raggedly car, you keep the new one, and you don' t even work. He settled! He's a suit-and-tie kind of guy, everything you own goes with sneakers. He settled! You ordered red wine with chili cheese fries . . . Duh! Lastly, you're in a bar, saying, "Why should I settle?"
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From the book's introduction:
