MisInformation

Let me cover something I heard from far too many women today and while writing my books. This complaint that they are the “head of household” and their men need to step it up. These women want you to beleive that they got it all together, make all the decisions, even make the best decisions. But, what they are not telling you is they make the worst decisions in men. They want you to believe that the man they are complaing about is not up to speed, intellectually lazy, or not man enough for a woman of their stature. All b/s! Pure crap!

Listen, the woman who allows a man to NOT take care of the home in any fashion that is his responsibility is indirectly submitting to his weaknesses because, deep down, it’s what she wants from a man. Deep down, she wants to control that man and, paying all the bills, having him hand her his check every friday, and knowing where the money is and how much is in the bank gives her a sense of control over a man she has likely never had. Roll with me!

To allow a man to simply work and cash his check and be totally in the dark about the finances is a sign that she loves weak men. Don’t let them fool you into thinking she just knows more about money than him. She chose him on purpose. No different than weak men who date women with multiple kids because he can make her need him..for the kids sake. Women are no different. That woman who got tired of being in the dark about everything in her past relationships is tired of being told NO, or what to do, or what she can or cannot have. To rememdy this, she takes up with a loser. A weak minded man who just wants to work a job, come home, eat and have sex, then watch tv. This man is ripe for the picking. She can now prop him up as the reasons she has failed at everything in her life. She can say the house is a mess because she doesn’t get any help around the house. She can say the bills are behind because he doesn’t keep a job longer than 6 months. She can say she can’t work or keep herself up because, though she has a man in the house, he doesn’t even take the kids for one minute so she CAN hit the gym, do her hair and nails, work, you name it. You see what i am getting at here? The weak, lazy, half-ass employed man is the scapegoat for all her failures. This, my friends, is why weak, dirty, worthless men always have a woman taking care of them!

You’ve always wondered why losers always have a girlfriend that doesn’t seem to mind why he doesn’t work, haven’t you? Well, that last paragraph sums it up. A bigger loser than yourself always takes the heat off you and your failures. Women like this always hang in groups of women with similar woes and the same b/s story about “Man who won’t do right” guy! It’s all part of the plan. If a drunk hangs out with a crackhead, being drunk all the time don’t look so bad. See what I mean?

Now, to conclude, I am not blaming women for why these men are losers, I am simply exposing why those lame ass men always have women, and why women think the rest of us are too stupid to believe it’s him and not her. You’re head of household because you want to be. You want to mother this loser to make yourself feel important like the kids are to you. You feel needed, necessary, and like the Messiah! “Nothing gets done around here if I don’t do it!” stuff.

As I went head on into the myths about men, my third book hit a little closer to home due to the animosity many black women had towards me based on what is, if you do your homework, simple truths. Now, with the two video clips I will post below, you will see that this myth that “Good” black men are scare and that women are single because black men cannot step their game up is absolute b/s!!!! Just watch the two clips and you will see exactly why i wrote the 3rd book Why Black Men Leave Home…