Uhhhhhhhh…. really?
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http://www.nytimes.com/packages/html/fashion/20080621_STREET_FEATURE/index.html#section1
Let me ask the ladies a question: How is this your boyfriend/fiance/husband? How do you have a kid or kids by him? What do you see in him? Is this the guy you now complain is not stepping up to the plate in the relationship or with his illegitimate child? These types of guys are showing..UPFRONT..that they ain’t shit! (Yeah, I said it!) Does this not show you how those who follow trends are oftem misguided, confused and desperate to fit in? Same for women and their slutty, crotch-cut, low-waisted panty-showing jeans–think for yourself. Don’t allow the media, fashion trends or a need to fit in to define who you are. Think outside the box! Something the idiots in the above piece cannot seem to do. Be you, not what your clothes imply that you are!
Now, for the life of me, I don’t understand how you (girls/women) see this man in your future at all. You cannot complain that you are in the same place you were years back when this man oozes “I have no future.” right now. I don’t want to hear that “He won’t/can’t get/ can’t keep a job! He does nothing for his kid!” crap anymore if this is who you date or have kids by. It’s on you at this point. Poor choice in a mate comes back to you choosing whom to mate with.
What am I going to say to these men? Nothing! They are worthless. Once women no longer respond to this crap, (it’ll never happen) it will stop. When this behavior won’t even get you a “hello”, let alone a phone number, these idiots will stop doing it. You, women, have the power to change relationships based on who you select, and the behavior you condone. As long as i can barely get dressed, show my ass (literally), grow ridiculous hairdos and tattoo myself long before i make a career choice, you have no gripe about how your life turns out if you date me. Not with all that writing on the wall!
I’ll end by clarifying something that was said in the piece that proves he didn’t do quite the research the average white person assumes he did. Young boys and grown men, in some cases, sag their pants that low because of a prison culture that has leaked into the society. Yes, took their shoe strings and belts so they could not hang themselves or stangle others, etc. However, when you reach jail or prison, you are issued prison garb let from other inmates. You don’t get to select your size from a rack like at the mall. You get whatever they have that should fit you. You get to see a seamstress, or try them on first, they hand you a pile of folded prison blues, and you head to your cell. Too long, too bulky, missing a button, who cares. It’s prison! It’s not the style, more the way things are.
But….. most of those kats, back in the day, were wearing hand-me-down clothes that were a few sizes too big for them. Thus, the baggy trend. I’ll explain…Back then, when a single mom or poor family had limited funds, they shared clothing between siblings and, sometimes, other households. To that effect, if your older brother outgrew his pants, they became your pants to outgrow. They had to be cuffed several times at the bottom so you did not walk on them because, well, you had to keep them decent to maybe pass down to your younger sibling or a cousin, etc. So, you have oversided pants hanging off the buttocks, huge cuffs, and kids tugging at their crotches or belts to keep them up. Thus, the style you see starting in poorer communities (white as well!). So, if your brother is 2 years older, a few sizes bigger, and you have his old pants, a belt isn’t really going to keep a 38-waist pair of slacks up on a much thinner, shorter, younger kid with a 29 inch waist, is it? To cover the huge gaps in beltloops, they wore a longer shirt to mask it. That (for the unaware) is the MAIN reason the kids back in the day sagged their pants–they couldn’t help it!
Wow!!!! Really? Seriously?
A pregnancy ..pact? Re-ee-eally? A group of young, clueless, bored, desperate-for-attention girls got together and decided to have kids together, for whatever reason? I can see dressing alike, forming a stupid clique, or dating the same dumb jock, but… to all get knocked up at once, for no real reason? Wow! Talk about your parents dropping the ball on this one!
How many people missed the signs? If i had a daugher and most of her friends were pregnant, you think i wouldn’t step in and start asking questions? Maybe meet with some parents or the school? Casual sex is sooooo easy to get these days that you simply cannot pin this episode on the guys. You can’t! You hold the keys to that vagina, so it’s up to you who rides in it, right girls? Amazing!
Are the guys who participated lower than low? Yup! But, what dumb kid isn’t going to get involved with a free-for-all sex pact? How hard is it for a group of semi-hot to smoking hot girls to recruit guys for random, raw sex? That’s what guys that age look for, right? Dumb, hot horny girls ? But who finds 17 or more? Jackpot!!!! Bring on the poontang!
What more can I say then to read the article and see for yourself why men should not shoulder a majority of the blame what society feels is plaguing women and young girls. Are men more and more careless or are women simply adding fuel to the fire with their mindless antics? Sure, a man is half the problem, but this problem comes from the home.
Bwah-haaaaaaah-haaaaaaaah!!!!!!
Sorry, I don’t normally post stuff like this on my site, but this had me laughing so hard that my face hurt!!! This is that moment we all know happens, but never get to see–the behind-the-scenes and the outtakes of “live” news. Listen, I really don’t have to say much more than cut-and-paste the link and prepare to laugh your ass off!!!!
I sweare, i almost peed on myself! Couple drops! Matter of fact, tell me this clip isn’t funny! Say it! I dare you! Know what? I’m gonna watch it again myself! Hilarious!!!!
http://www.therundown.tv/videos/wtf-files/reporter-gets-street-when-a-bug-flies-in-his-mouth/
Q and A?
I often say in my shows that women are emotional thinkers and that men think in reality. True. No two ways about it. But, since that remark is hidden with a comedy routine, the validity of the statement is softened a bit. One of the biggest issues in relationships is women’s desire and demand for honesty from their partners. Which makes plenty of sense if every question you ask makes sense and seeks answers, not opinions. For that reason, men despise fielding heavy questions from lovers or friends because it puts us in an awkward situation that could ruin that relationship be it friend or lover.
In conversations with various anonymous women (in person and on radio) I inform them that there are such things as a boyfriend/husband question, and a girlfriend question. A boyfriend/husband question is something you absolutely have to ask. “What time is it?” “Where are the car keys?” Questions that require a simple answer with little or no thought. Questions like “Does this dress make me look fat?” or “How is my cooking?” is a girlfriend question because, well, whether or not she hurts your feelings, she doesn’t have to lie next to in bed that night, or avoid you for the next few days because you are angry. So, ladies, there’s the answer to the first part of why men won’t answer your silly questions. They are silly, pointless questions, and, they cause too much drama within the relationship.
To the point, you want me to give you an opinion, not an answer. Here’s the problem: Opinions leave deep wounds while answers solve problems or draw conclusions. Opinions only create more doubt, more skepticism, more grief, more pain. For instance, if a man asks his wife to give her honest opinion of his penis size and he isn’t the only guy she has ever slept with, he is asking for trouble! If he gets is feelings hurt, it is because he went searching it, not because she offered for no apparent reason. Her answer could (usually does) scar him for life if he’s no well endowed! Why would he ask that stupid question? Because he needs the opinion of others to somehow validate in his mind what he is worth in bed. However, if she’s dated the guy for some time, even married him, his penis is enough for her or she wouldn’t be there. So, he already has the answer to whether or not his penis makes her happy, he needs her OPINION of how big it is (to which they don’t have to be “big” to feel good to most women) to ruin his self-esteem and, quite possibly, the relationship afterwards.
Women ask men about how they look in certain pieces of clothing. Mistake! That is a powder keg waiting to explode. Why, because you will get the truth, not his opinion. You don’t know how she is going to react, how long your “opinion” is going to affect her. All you know is things are about to go downhill if you answer the stupid question! I have dated women where, three boyfriends ago, he mentioned to her that she’s a little overweight or doesn’t have the body for certain outfits and she has never recovered from it. EVER!!! I’ve tried to date women that refused to let me see them naked or shower together. They want the light out during sex, they would undress before I came into the room and already be under the sheets because, some time ago they either asked a girlfriend question to a man, or was given an unsolicited OPINION or fact about how they look.
To sum this little rant up, ladies… a girlfriend question is any stupid question where I have to give you my opinion of something that is of value to you. A garment you are too old to wear or makes you look slutttier than you are will warrant an honest answer, so don’t ask me. If the skirt is cut clear up to your crotch or you cheeks hang out the back of your skanky little shorts, why are you asking what you know I am not going to lie to you about? Clearly the garment gives you pause, or you wouldn’t ask. Just because the dress is too tight on your belly does not mean you are fat, it means the dress is either the wrong size, or not cut for your body type. THERFORE asking me does the dress look fat is a request for an opinion, not the truth. The truth is, you should return the dress or go one size up. My opinion is it makes you appear to be overweight, when it is simply the wrong size or style. Any discussion beyond that reasonable statement, and you are asking me to either lie to you, or outright hurt your feelings. Once I answer the question, is it my fault you are in emotional pain right now? Should I have lied to you or thought a little longer before giving my answer? No, you should not have asked ME the question! That’s what girlfriends are for. Any question that, ladies, may have to brace yourself for his answer, is a girlfriend question. Ask a girlfriend! Let her lie to you or break your heart. Rethink the question, or leave the men out of this!
A matter of opinion…
I often say in my shows that women are emotional thinkers and that men think in reality. True. No two ways about it. But, since that remark is hidden with a comedy routine, the validity of the statement is softened a bit. One of the biggest issues in relationships is women’s desire and demand for honesty from their partners. Which makes plenty of sense if every question you ask makes sense and seeks answers, not opinions. For that reason, men despise fielding heavy questions from lovers or friends because it puts us in an awkward situation that could ruin that relationship be it friend or lover.
In conversations with various anonymous women (in person and on radio) I inform them that there are such things as a boyfriend/husband question, and a girlfriend question. A boyfriend/husband question is something you absolutely have to ask. “What time is it?” “Where are the car keys?” Questions that require a simple answer with little or no thought. Questions like “Does this dress make me look fat?” or “How is my cooking?” is a girlfriend question because, well, whether or not she hurts your feelings, she doesn’t have to lie next to in bed that night, or avoid you for the next few days because you are angry. So, ladies, there’s the answer to the first part of why men won’t answer your silly questions. They are silly, pointless questions, and, they cause too much drama within the relationship.
To the point, you want me to give you an opinion, not an answer. Here’s the problem: Opinions leave deep wounds while answers solve problems or draw conclusions. Opinions only create more doubt, more skepticism, more grief, more pain. For instance, if a man asks his wife to give her honest opinion of his penis size and he isn’t the only guy she has ever slept with, he is asking for trouble! If he gets is feelings hurt, it is because he went searching it, not because she offered for no apparent reason. Her answer could (usually does) scar him for life if he’s no well endowed! Why would he ask that stupid question? Because he needs the opinion of others to somehow validate in his mind what he is worth in bed. However, if she’s dated the guy for some time, even married him, his penis is enough for her or she wouldn’t be there. So, he already has the answer to whether or not his penis makes her happy, he needs her OPINION of how big it is (to which they don’t have to be “big” to feel good to most women) to ruin his self-esteem and, quite possibly, the relationship afterwards.
Women ask men about how they look in certain pieces of clothing. Mistake! That is a powder keg waiting to explode. Why, because you will get the truth, not his opinion. You don’t know how she is going to react, how long your “opinion” is going to affect her. All you know is things are about to go downhill if you answer the stupid question! I have dated women where, three boyfriends ago, he mentioned to her that she’s a little overweight or doesn’t have the body for certain outfits and she has never recovered from it. EVER!!! I’ve tried to date women that refused to let me see them naked or shower together. They want the light out during sex, they would undress before I came into the room and already be under the sheets because, some time ago they either asked a girlfriend question to a man, or was given an unsolicited OPINION or fact about how they look.
To sum this little rant up, ladies… a girlfriend question is any stupid question where I have to give you my opinion of something that is of value to you. A garment you are too old to wear or makes you look slutttier than you are will warrant an honest answer, so don’t ask me. If the skirt is cut clear up to your crotch or you cheeks hang out the back of your skanky little shorts, why are you asking what you know I am not going to lie to you about? Clearly the garment gives you pause, or you wouldn’t ask. Just because the dress is too tight on your belly does not mean you are fat, it means the dress is either the wrong size, or not cut for your body type. THERFORE asking me does the dress look fat is a request for an opinion, not the truth. The truth is, you should return the dress or go one size up. My opinion is it makes you appear to be overweight, when it is simply the wrong size or style. Any discussion beyond that reasonable statement, and you are asking me to either lie to you, or outright hurt your feelings. Once I answer the question, is it my fault you are in emotional pain right now? Should I have lied to you or thought a little longer before giving my answer? No, you should not have asked ME the question! That’s what girlfriends are for. Any question that, ladies, may have to brace yourself for his answer, is a girlfriend question. Ask a girlfriend! Let her lie to you or break your heart. Rethink the question, or leave the men out of this!